在工作日益繁忙的现代社会,很多白领根本就没有足够的时间去寻找爱情,越来越多的人将目光瞄向了与自己一同工作的同事,workplaceromance越来越流行,你有没有类似经历呢?
King:Thetripwasprettygoodexceptfortheflattirewegotonthewayhome.Iwasgoingtochangeitmyselfbutthen...heyDan,areyouevenlisteningtome?Dan?
Dan:Ohsorry,Ispacedoutthereforasecond.
K:Whowereyoulookingat?Waitasecond...youwerelookingatJulie!
D:Allright,Iconfess!I'mbusted.IhaveabigcrushonJulie.
K:That'swonderful!Julieisagreatwoman,andyou'reagreatguy!Sohaveyouaskedheroutyet?
D:No.I'mnotreallysureit'sappropriate.
King正在给Dan讲自己最近的一次旅行,他们回家路上车胎爆了(Wegotaflattire),正说得高兴,King发现Dan根本没在听自己说话。Dan很不好意思,承认他走神了(Ispacedoutforasecond),spaceout是“走神”的意思,形容“心不在焉”,“走神”还可以用daydream来表示,所以刚才那句话也可以说“Iwasdaydreamingforasecond.”
然后King发现,Dan走神是在看女同事Julie。Dan只好承认说“I'mbusted.IhaveabigcrushonJulie”。“I'mbusted”意思是“被抓住了,被发现了,暴露了”。他说自己确实在偷偷喜欢Julie,但又不敢askherout(约她出去),不知道这样做是否合适。
K:Ithinklotsofpeoplemeettheir"significantother"intheworkplace.It'snotlikeshe'syourboss...goaskherout!
D:Idon'tknow...whatifshesays'no?'
K:Haveyoueverheardtheold:"Nothingventured,nothinggained?"Whatifshesays'yes?'
D:I'vealwayshadareallyhardtimeapproachingwomen.Igettongue-tiedandstartsweating.Idon'twanttoeacrossastooaggressive,butIalsodon'twanttoappeartoopassive...It'sreallyhardtogetitright!
King说,很多人都是在工作场所遇到自己另一半的,significantother是“伴侣”的意思,也可以说是自己的betterhalf。Dan害怕被拒绝,King告诉他说Nothingventured,nothinggained(不去冒险尝试,就绝不会有收获)。Dan说自己在追女人方面特别不在行,Igettongue-tiedandstartsweating(我说话会结结巴巴,直冒冷汗)。Dan还说,既不想显得太主动,也不想显得太被动,It'sreallyhardtogetitright(很难把握好分寸)。
K:Ifthere'sonethingI'velearnedinmylifeit'sthatyouneverlosebytrying.Youneverknowunlessyoutry!Gettingrejectedisn'ttheendtheworld!
D:ButhowdoImaketheinitialapproach?ShouldItrytoeupwithsomecleverorwittyremarks?
K:Therearealotofguysouttherewhothinkthey'reCasanova,butinmyexperience,womendon'tgoforcheesypickuplines.Isuggestbeingsweet,straightforwardandsincere.
D:SowhatshouldIsay?
King说尝试一下(约Julie出去)也不会有什么损失,最糟糕也不过是被拒绝。Dan问,要不襡upwithsomecleverorwittyremark(想出一些俏皮话),King告诉他,约女人出去,直截了当些就好,womendon'tgoforcheesypickuplines(女人对俏皮的搭讪并不买账)。Dan会鼓起勇气约Julie出去吗?
(本文来自互联网,不代表一点资讯的观点和立场)